What We Offer

An intentionally curated experience for those seeking more than just parties. HandPicked is about meaningful encounters, real conversations, and authentic connections—whether romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between. Every member is screened, every event is elevated.

HandPicked provides a safe space for the polyamorous, kink, and sex-forward communities, all while enjoying the art of movement. Our social club provides a vibe for whatever your desires may entail. You can find the hottest GoGo, Burlesque, & Pole performers any city has to offer.

If you’re not the social butterfly and would like HandPicked to curate your own personal event, email us at Events@HandPickedSC.com.

    Step 1: Contact Info & Verification

    Upload a clear photo of your government-issued ID:

    Step 2: What Are You Applying For?

    Please select all that apply:

    Step 3: Lifestyle Alignment (If applicable)

    What best describes your relationship style?

    How do you identify?

    What is your sexual orientation?

    What are you looking for within the community?

    Tell us what you're seeking by joining HandPicked:

    Step 4: Talent & Collaboration Info (if applicable)

    If you're a performer or collaborator, what role(s) do you offer?

    What is your rate?

    Tell us about your talent, performance style, or creative contribution:

    Are you willing to travel?

    Upload your headshot and full-body photo:

    Performance video (if applicable):

    Step 5: Location & Visibility

    Where are you based?

    How interested are you in attending in-person events?

    Optional: Share your public links (Instagram, LinkedIn, Fetlife, etc.):

    Step 6: Consent & Submission