We are a Private, Upscale
Polyamory & Kink
Lifestyle Community
Welcome to HandPicked—an exclusive members-only social club for mature, open-minded individuals exploring ethical non-monogamy, sensuality, and connection. HandPicked is an inclusive community who welcomes ALL. We have a zero-tolerance policy for racism/homophobia/sexism/slut shaming/body shaming/prejudice in any form. Our events and online network provide a safe, stylish, and judgment-free environment for self-expression and exploration.
What We Offer
An intentionally curated experience for those seeking more than just parties. HandPicked is about meaningful encounters, real conversations, and authentic connections—whether romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between. Every member is screened, every event is elevated.
A New Era of Intimacy, Connection & Community
We create safe spaces, online and in-person, where identity, consent, and pleasure take center stage.
Private Events Hosted
Vetted Community Leaders
Active Chapters in the U.S.
Over Connections Made
What Our Members Say
“There are many variations of passages of Lorem Ipsum available, but the majority have suffered alteration by injected humour.”
“A sanctuary for exploring kink and connection with like-minded, professional people.”
“From the application process to the events, everything feels safe, polished, and empowering.”
The Veil Lifts for the Worthy
HandPicked is not for everyone — and that’s the point. We welcome individuals who value authenticity, privacy, and deeper connection.